| Many people think the only way you can catch a | | | | done this. You have to take into consideration, |
| cheater is to hire an expensive PI to follow your | | | | that it may be their first time and then you can |
| spouse around for a few months. There are | | | | almost be guaranteed he/she will slip up. Am I |
| many ways you can do it yourself or hire a PI to | | | | saying set a trap or two? Possibly. That would be |
| do simple inexpensive investigation services. | | | | a sure fire way to catch someone. But |
| 1) Open you eyes! Always remember that your | | | | remember, you also cant alter your "norm" or |
| first intuition is 9 times out of 10 correct. | | | | that will throw the other person into an extra |
| 2) If you sense indiscretions going on, never | | | | cautious mood. So add an extra color veggie for |
| hesitate to Investigate. You most likely will | | | | dinner, watch something other than American Idol |
| stumble across the truth, but the peace of mind | | | | on Tuesday, see if little things get noticed. If he's |
| you will bring yourself is priceless. | | | | not noticing tiny changes, then be on your toes. |
| 3) After finding out if Joe Smoe is being faithful or | | | | Something is going on right under your nose! |
| not, you must consider the ramifications. There | | | | 7) You must also consider what you will do with |
| will no doubt be some and can you handle the | | | | this evidence. Some people have a divorce lawyer |
| truth. Confide in your best friend, have an outlet | | | | on speed dial. I know, very sad. Some will go into |
| to vent your frustration. That will help you stay | | | | a funk and gain 20 pounds. Others will confront |
| on track and somewhat keep your sanity intact! | | | | and ask for him to come clean. Would you take |
| 4) Our obvious place to start is with their | | | | him back? Would you go into a trial period? You |
| electronic devices. Being a phone, computer or | | | | must have answers before confronting him/her. |
| palm pilot. (does anyone use Palms anymore?) | | | | Be prepared for anything. |
| You cant assume that this person is all that | | | | 8) The last thing I can put into your mind is this: |
| intelligent. More and more people get caught by | | | | Attack the situation with as much strength as |
| not deleting their text messages/picture | | | | you can muster up. Your pride and respect has |
| messages. But even if they have deleted their | | | | been trampled on. Defend your self respect and |
| messages a forensic examination can recover the | | | | get the answers you deserve. But most |
| deleted messages. | | | | importantly, don't lose yourself in the mean time. |
| 5) Keep an eye also on their day to day habits. | | | | That can be the last thing you have when the |
| See what if any were altered. Normally someone | | | | dust settles. No one can take that away from |
| who is sneaking around and feeling somewhat | | | | you, unless you allow it. |
| guilty, will overcompensate other tasks. Normally | | | | 9) You can also hire a private detective to catch |
| you have to ask him to take the trash out 5 | | | | a cheater. Make sure you hire one that knows all |
| times, now he does it without being prompted. | | | | about cell phone forensics and how to undelete |
| He's on time to dinner now, without being called | | | | deleted text messages and emails. |
| and reminded the time. He remembers your child's | | | | 10) Ask any PI, the fastest easiest and cheapest |
| baseball game is at 2pm instead of the normal 4 | | | | way to catch a cheater is an Online Infidelity |
| pm. Again, keep your eyes open! | | | | Investigation. That's when you hire a PI to trace |
| 6) Even though a million thoughts run through our | | | | the cheater's email address back to all their secret |
| minds of that this isn't the first time he/she has | | | | dating and personal ad sites. |