| u suspect a bit of infidelity in your relationship? I | | | | an out of character manner. If they seem to |
| wouldn't be surprised as most people will have | | | | think you are accusing them all the time then |
| been on the receiving end of this at some time of | | | | there may be a reason behind that… |
| their life. Do you know what is worse than having | | | | Sign #4: |
| someone be unfaithful to you and finding out? Not | | | | Being too nice. Remember to only look for |
| knowing when the person is… | | | | behavior that is out of the ordinary, if your |
| There is nothing worse in a relationship than | | | | partner is always nice and does nice things for |
| mistrust, so you need to handle the problem | | | | you then this sign may not be noticeable. Again |
| quickly before the loving relationship you had | | | | this stems from guilty feelings, in an attempt to |
| starts to crumble. You know what I mean, if you | | | | assuage their guilt then they overcompensate by |
| mistrust someone then they can sense it and you | | | | being overly nice to you, almost as if they can |
| treat them differently, in the end this turns to | | | | 'offset' the negative act of infidelity with a |
| anger and resentment from both people involved | | | | positive. If you start to get your favorite food all |
| and the relationship is dead in the water. So how | | | | the time and gifts then that should raise some |
| can you tell? How can you back up your gut | | | | flags in your psyche. |
| instinct and be sure enough to confront your | | | | Sign #5: |
| partner? Well here I will discuss 5 ways you can | | | | Unusual or unusually high usage of mobile phones |
| glean some more information. | | | | email/the internet. |
| Sign #1: | | | | Recent surveys show that 30% of people posting |
| A distance forms between you. Some couple are | | | | online personal ads are married. |
| open and close, others are not, but either way | | | | In Let's face it, if you are involved with someone |
| there will be times when you confide in each | | | | then you tend to want to contact them all the |
| other and turn to each other for support. You | | | | time when you are away from them. Even the |
| may notice that at times they would usually talk | | | | most inept unfaithful partner in the world knows |
| to you then they are less forthcoming, maybe | | | | that constantly meeting person is going to get |
| when they were stressed they would come to | | | | you caught, so what do they do? They resort to |
| you, or when they were upset. This is usually | | | | more passive communication methods. You will |
| because they are trying not to be as open with | | | | know the normal usage levels for your partner on |
| you as they feel less of a connection due to guilt. | | | | the phone and internet, if you see that rising then |
| Sign #2: | | | | try to drag them away, if they get defensive and |
| Buys new things that are either out of character | | | | angry… you may be on to something. |
| for them, or the act of buying new things is odd. | | | | So what do you do next? If you see enough |
| Some people get into the habit of having the | | | | signs then you may be justified to confront them, |
| same clothes and perfumes/aftershaves etc and | | | | but only if you are sure, being wrong would |
| rarely buy new things. If that same person then | | | | probably mean the end of the relationship |
| suddenly decides to go out and get an array of | | | | anyway. Or you could hire a Private Investigator, |
| new clothes you should be suspicious of their | | | | these professionals are skilled in tracking and |
| motives (could be a spring clean, but you need to | | | | tracing people both online and off line. Did you |
| check!). Equally, if you partner is always very | | | | know that you can have a search done for the |
| reserved in their choices and suddenly they start | | | | email address of your partner on hundreds of |
| to buy more risqué clothes, or even the | | | | dating websites at once? Or trace back that |
| other way round, then you need to check for the | | | | shady email and find out who the face behind the |
| other signs to see if something is going on. | | | | screen is? How about tracking that unknown |
| Sign #3: | | | | number back to source? |
| They become more defensive and quick to anger. | | | | You can even take that cell phone or Blackberry |
| Guilt gnaws away at you from inside, and often | | | | and retrieve all the deleted text messages and |
| innocent comments like, 'Did you take the remote | | | | photos using a service called Hand Held Digital |
| control?' can trigger that guilt and they respond in | | | | Forensics. |