| It's time for a heart to heart! You are having | | | | An easy way to do this, is to team up with a |
| doubts and are really upset because you think | | | | friend, using an "unknown" car to your partner, so |
| that your partner is cheating on you, right? Well I | | | | that way you can follow him/her without them |
| have news for you, more likely than not, they | | | | knowing. You can also tell your partner that you |
| actually are. Your gut instincts almost always | | | | will be going out with friends later, but can stick |
| NEVER lie to you, and if your partner is cheating, | | | | around and see what your partner is up to. If you |
| there is only one sure way to find out about it. | | | | adapt a frequent "going out" lifestyle, your partner |
| Proving about the affair is harder still. | | | | is bound to eventually think you are predictable |
| If you still want to sit around and never know | | | | and will finally slip up thinking you won't be around. |
| whether or not your partner is really cheating, all | | | | Or hire a private investigator- if you feel you |
| that will happen is that you will become furious | | | | cannot do the trailing yourself. Though hiring one is |
| and mad eventually. However, what good will your | | | | quite a hefty sum, the cost is well worth your |
| anger and hysterics do? Nothing! It is best to find | | | | peace of mind. Besides, you can always charge it |
| out what your partner is doing behind your back | | | | to your partner's account. |
| so you have some proof when confrontation time | | | | Drop by your partner's office - and sniff around. |
| comes! | | | | More often than not, the third party is almost |
| How do you find out what your partner is doing | | | | always from the work place. You have nothing to |
| behind your back? There are ways and means. | | | | lose by doing so. Dropping by your partner's office |
| See if these tips will work for you.... | | | | will not be so tacky or suspicious as it's only |
| Look for paper trails - There must be receipts, | | | | natural. Sniff out the "other". He or she is just |
| letters, cards, credit card bill, and phone bills | | | | around. The easiest way to pull this off, is to |
| somewhere. Look for them and try to compare. | | | | simply bring something or provokingly take |
| Is the last month's credit card bill smaller than the | | | | something they need for work and hide it. You |
| current month? What about the phone bills? | | | | may take something from his/her suitcase |
| Higher? Lower? Work it out yourself. Figure it out. | | | | briefcase, and if they were really going to work, |
| You are bound to get some vital information with | | | | they would need it right? |
| the paper trail. | | | | Then, show up later, and obviously if your partner |
| Why not trail your partner yourself? - Go ahead! | | | | is not even there, then you definitely have just |
| You have always wanted to play detective. Do it | | | | busted them in the act. You can also see if they |
| now and for a good cause too. See where your | | | | mention the missing things later, as if they had |
| partner is going. Find out who your partner has | | | | really been at work, they would have noticed. |
| been seeing. | | | | |