| You must have seen in the movies and in general | | | | innocent visit to his office on any pretext might |
| life too that people tend to panic & become | | | | help you catch him red handed, but this has to be |
| fidgety when they know that they are dishonest | | | | done with absolute discretion. If not done carefully |
| and that someone is observing their dishonest | | | | it will let him now that you are suspecting him and |
| deeds. While some of the brave and brash ones | | | | he might become extra cautious to cover his |
| carry on unhindered, they are a rarity. Most of | | | | tracks. |
| them stop doing their wrong deeds for some | | | | This may sound a bit too much but assuming you |
| time and proceed ahead when they are sure that | | | | have his email accounts password, it makes no |
| the coast is clear. Hence the golden rule for | | | | harm to check out his mailbox. Smart people |
| catching a cheating man is to act if you do not | | | | keep key loggers on their home pc's so it would |
| suspect him at all. | | | | be a wise idea to check out his mail from the |
| Act normally and at the same time observe him | | | | safety of a cyber café. Do not just |
| carefully. Give him the same love and affection | | | | satisfy yourself with the mails in his inbox. Check |
| that you would give under normal circumstances | | | | out the trash folder too along with the draft |
| and at the same time keep out an eye on his | | | | folder. |
| infidelities. Keep track of his movements and if | | | | If you have not seen the movie `Dial X For |
| possible record hard evidence. He has to know | | | | Murder' here is another good tip. Ring up your |
| that you do not suspect about his deeds and that | | | | husband on his office landline and after the |
| you trust him totally. Under such circumstances | | | | conversation is over, act as if someone is ringing |
| he will go on merrily about his nefarious deeds | | | | the doorbell and tell him to hold the line for a few |
| unhindered. To put the same in simple English, | | | | minutes. If you are lucky you might be able to |
| keep acting like a dumb lady. | | | | hear some juicy conversations. |
| Small actions like keeping a tab of his activities go | | | | Girls are generally friendly with other girls. If you |
| a long way to prove about your husbands | | | | are sure that one of his female colleagues is not |
| infidelity. Little things that seem of no value might | | | | having an affair with your husband, you can take |
| later on turn out to be a mountain of information. | | | | her help to track down the habits of your hubby. |
| Scraps of papers with phone numbers on them, | | | | If you do have money to spend, then the best |
| tell-tale marks on his clothes (yes I mean the | | | | option, to be used when there are no other |
| marks left by rouges and lipsticks) are positive | | | | avenues left, is to hire a private detective agency. |
| indicators about your hubby cheating with you. An | | | | |