| Couples therapists report a 50% increase in | | | | detective or invest in sophisticated surveillance |
| female infidelity. The cover story in the current | | | | equipment to find out if his wife is having an |
| issue of Newsweek magazine is all about cheating | | | | affair. If he knows what to look for, all he needs |
| wives: "The New Infidelity - From Office Affairs | | | | are his eyes, his ears and his personal knowledge |
| to Internet Hook-Ups, More Wives Are Cheating | | | | of his wife. Knowing what to look for is the key. |
| Too." Yet, as widespread as female infidelity has | | | | 21 Categories of Telltale Signs |
| become, many unsuspecting husbands have no | | | | There are 21 categories of telltale signs, with |
| idea their wives are having an affair. They often | | | | numerous signs in each category. Of course, no |
| find themselves in a situation like David in the | | | | can be expected to know them all. That's why it |
| Newsweek article, who found out his wife was | | | | makes sense to invest in a relationship reference |
| cheating the day she told him she wanted a | | | | book like Is He Cheating on You? in order to |
| divorce. Unsuspecting husbands are often | | | | become more knowledgeable about the warning |
| surprised when they learn about a cheating wife's | | | | signs. After all, most families have a medical |
| extramarital affair. But, the stark reality is that if | | | | reference book in their home to alert them to the |
| a husband isn't familiar with the signs of infidelity, | | | | signs and symptoms of health and medical |
| by the time he finds out his wife is cheating, it's | | | | problems. The same thing applies to marital |
| usually too late. | | | | problems like infidelity. |
| Women Don't Become Cheaters Overnight | | | | Universal Telltale SignsSome of the signs of |
| Yet many of the signs may have been there all | | | | infidelity documented in Is He Cheating on You? - |
| along. A woman doesn't become a cheating wife | | | | 829 Telltale Signs apply exclusively to cheating |
| overnight. Infidelity develops in stages. In almost | | | | men. But many of the signs are universal and |
| every case, there are numerous telltale signs | | | | apply to both cheating husbands and cheating |
| along the way. In fact, many of the warning signs | | | | wives. Additional information about infidelity can be |
| of impending infidelity are evident long before the | | | | found at [ Although the website is primarily |
| physical act of infidelity actually takes place. | | | | directed to women, about a third of the e-mails |
| Know How to Spot the Telltale Signs | | | | received come from men seeking advice about |
| The husband who knows how to spot the signs | | | | various telltale signs. |
| of infidelity has a fighting chance to save his | | | | So What Should a Husband Do? |
| marriage. He won't end up like John LeSage in the | | | | With infidelity affecting 80% of all marriages, the |
| Newsweek article who was devastated when he | | | | husband who values his marriage would do well to |
| came home one day and found that his wife of | | | | become familiar with the warning signs. He should |
| 24 years had disappeared. John said, "I would | | | | always strive to be aware of his wife's feelings |
| have done a lot things differently, but I never got | | | | and keep abreast of the things that are going on |
| the chance." This loving, but unsuspecting husband | | | | in her life. It's not about being overly suspicious. |
| never knew his marriage was in jeopardy | | | | It's about keeping a finger on the pulse of his |
| because he was unfamiliar with the warning signs. | | | | marriage. Forewarned is forearmed. This way, he'll |
| Identifying the Problem | | | | be equipped to recognize even the most subtle |
| The first step in solving a problem is knowing that | | | | telltale signs. The future of his marriage may well |
| the problem exists. There are certain telltale signs | | | | depend on his ability to spot those telltale signs in |
| that serve as a wake-up call that a marriage is in | | | | time. |
| trouble. A husband doesn't need to hire a private | | | | |