| There's no doubt in your mind that your spouse is | | | | you along so they can fleece you for whatever |
| cheating on you. You think. All the indicators are | | | | you're worth. After their done, you still have no |
| there. Sort of. The calls at odd hours, the | | | | clue as to whether your spouse is having an |
| dramatic change in habits and appearance for no | | | | extramarital affair. No surprise since sleaze is |
| apparent reason have got your radar working | | | | usually accompanied by shoddy or lazy |
| overtime. | | | | workmanship. Again this is not the norm but it |
| When you bring these issues up with your spouse | | | | does exist. |
| including the longer work hours which are | | | | 3. The Guilt |
| becoming more regular, they have a perfectly | | | | For all the different ramifications, hiring a private |
| reasonable explanation for all these activities. In | | | | investigator makes one thing loud and clear; you |
| fact their excuses are so good that not only do | | | | don't trust your spouse. Otherwise why would |
| you believe them but you feel a certain amount | | | | you hire a third party to keep tabs on them? You |
| of guilt for suspecting them. | | | | cannot help but have a little bit guilt about it. Yes |
| That was then. Now the pattern has become too | | | | you want to know but spying is still spying. That's |
| obvious to ignore. You are now one hundreds | | | | a clear indicator that the trust you both had in the |
| percent certain that your spouse is having an | | | | early years of your marriage is for all practical |
| extramarital affair. Except for one problem; you | | | | purposes gone. |
| still do not have any hard evidence. So how do | | | | 4. Nothing |
| you get that proof? Well there's always a private | | | | You spent money and countless sleepless nights |
| investigator. | | | | wondering. So what is the result? According to |
| Private investigators are trained in the art of | | | | the investigator your spouse has been faithful |
| surveillance and many of them have been able to | | | | almost too extreme. All your suspicions about |
| retire comfortably thanks to the always profitable | | | | their odd patterns and behaviors have been |
| cheating spouse industry.They have the | | | | dispelled. They really were telling you the truth. |
| equipment and experience to give you a definitive | | | | You're relieved but still left with that feeling of |
| yes or no answer regarding your spouse's fidelity. | | | | emptiness in your stomach as well as your |
| So why would you hesitate about hiring one? | | | | pockets. |
| 1. Expensive | | | | 5. They Find Out |
| Depending on the fees and rates charged a highly | | | | A good private investigator is also very |
| respected private investigator can cost you a | | | | experienced when it comes to keeping |
| pretty penny. While some may charge you a flat | | | | themselves hidden from the person they are |
| rate (still very steep), a great deal of the billing will | | | | observing. Unfortunately you are not and your |
| be based on how long the assignment last. That | | | | spouse has found out big time that you have |
| only makes sense. Private investigators are | | | | hired someone to investigate them. What happens |
| trained professionals whose time is extremely | | | | next is fairly predictable; they blow their stack. |
| valuable. If your spouse is cheating and their radar | | | | Any trust that was left in the relationship will |
| tells them they are being watched, they may | | | | most likely disappear for good. |
| decide to lay low for awhile. If you want the | | | | If you have your suspicions concerning your |
| private investigator to stay on the case, the | | | | spouse's fidelity, it's only natural that you would |
| money can add up quickly. | | | | want to know. Since carrying on an extramarital |
| 2. The Sleaze | | | | affair requires a certain amount of ingenuity it |
| Fortunately, this is rare since a number of states | | | | might be necessary to call in someone who is |
| require private investigators to be licensed and | | | | experienced in uncovering this type of behavior. |
| many take great pride in protecting their work | | | | But go very carefully. Once you go thru with |
| and reputation. However like any field, there are | | | | hiring a private investigator, the window of |
| some bad apples that have no problem stringing | | | | opportunity to turn back can close very quickly. |